10.21.14 – Daily Dose of Green – Maya Lin

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I was convinced I’d blogged about Maya Lin’s earth form sculptures before, but, after scrolling through search results on my own blog, I guess not.  Well, today is the day since we rented a car and drove up to Storm King this weekend and the highlight was cresting a hill and seeing the Maya Lin sculpture “Storm King Wavefield”.   Alex had been tired and whiny as we hiked across the sculpture park – he was obsessed with taking the tram instead of walking – while I wanted no part of the tram, since it was packed like a subway car with people and the whole point of a trip to Storm King is getting away from people!  Alex and I were actually bickering about the use of the word “dumb” while we climbed the hill – and suddenly we came to the top of the hill and KAPOW there was this vista with this sculpture dominating the landscape – natural (made of earth and grass) and unnatural (symmetrical and ocean-like ) all at the same time.   Alex persisted in his cranky for a while and I was so overcome by the sculpture that I managed to leave my phone on the grass and had to return (cutting thorough some Williamsburg Hipsters making an art film) to find it.  However – this is the great part – by the time we walked down the hill, saw the Andy Goldsworthy on the other side of the pond, and found my phone – our mood had totally shifted for the better.  We managed to walk the whole way back to the parking lot in good spirits, searching for good rocks and goofing around.  I read Holland Cotter’s review of the sculpture from 2009 and here’s one paragraph that stuck with me:

Seen from a slight elevation, it complements its hilly setting but interrupts it. (There is, after all, something a little freakish about these slinky, reptilian swellings in the ground.) Because the work does both, it sharpens your eye to existing harmonies and asymmetries otherwise overlooked.

Cotter articulated the thing I liked best about the sculpture – that somehow the dissonance between the natural and unnatural did “sharpen my eye” and as we walked through Andy Goldsworthy’s Running Wall (located nearby) all three of us noticed details and textures of the trees, the rocks, the sky that we hadn’t been seeing the rest of the day.


10.20.14 – The New Apartment: The Blank Slate


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We talked about the hallway last week, and today I wanted to share my Pinterest obsession board  inspiration board. Before I did that, I figured I would show you a floor plan and some photos since that’s the only way I ever make sense of a space online.  We’ve moved a lot in the last 10 years and while I love the fresh start offered by each apartment I tend to get really impatient and uncomfortable with the process of making an apartment into a home. At some point I just want the house to be comfortable, organized and livable!  In any case, here are some photos so you can visualize along with me:


This is my favorite view in the house – my desk currently sits between the two doors.


Dining room – we have our table right in front of the two windows.


Nice light but no views and very strange closet space – the wall is essentially a false one.  Lots of problems (no storage!) and possibilities (shaker built ins?).


Alex’s room – small but the nicest light in the house.


Lots of space but also lots of tan and pink and tile.

10.17.14 – Doodles, Mandalas, French Amazon

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I stumbled on these “anti-stress” doodle books on French Amazon after Scott Schuman posted this photo of a Art Therapy Mandalas book on Instagram (which reminded me of Leigh’s mandalas).  I definitely doodle when I’m on the phone or in meetings and had read that it’s good for your brain but I hadn’t really taken in that there is a veritable movement of doodlers out there – both in coloring books and freehand.   In terms of freehand doodling, I just came across a Zen Tangle book while standing in line at Michael’s and went down the internet rabbit hole on the subject of doodling and mindfulness, doodling and healing and basically, the idea is that coloring in a coloring book or doodling helps clear the mind.   The University of New Hampshire Health Services has a useful discussion of the spiritual and healing aspect of coloring/drawing with free mandala downloads (I told you I went down the rabbit hole!). I like the idea that there is no wrong way to draw / color / doodle.  Anyway, do you doodle? Would you buy these coloring books? This Forest Fairies book seems pretty tempting since I’m fairy tale obsessed as does Animaux Fantastiques.  PS French Amazon is a rabbit hole of its own. So much good graphic design.

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10.15.14 – Morningside Heights & A Looooong Hallway


I’m sitting in the passenger seat of our rental car, listening to The Coffee House on XM Radio, which I associate with the open road.  We’re Washington DC bound, with Alex, bagels and black and white cookies tucked in the back, visiting our oldest college friends and meeting their new baby.   Tim is driving in the quietly meditative way that I love and Alex is engrossed in his Search and Find book so I suddenly have a few quiet hours to sit here and write some blog posts. 

Since I last checked in we’ve moved to Morningside Heights and I’m head-over-heels with our new neighborhood.  Some restless part of me has settled, at least for the time being. As the last boxes head to the curb and the chaos of moving subsides, I’m spending a lot time thinking about our long (36 foot!) hallway and thought I’d get your thoughts, too. I was leafing through an Architectural Digest at the nail salon and found this image of Marcia and Richard Mishaan’s Manhattan apartment.  I like the white lacquered walls and the focal point at the end (makes it seem shorter and less narrow).  Here are a few more inspiration images of lacquered white hallways (see my Pinterest for sources):



I’m thinking of grey wall to wall carpeting with oriental runners on top. We have two professional musicians as downstairs neighbors – their music wafts up to us and I’m sure Alex’s thundering travels directly down to them as well – so I want to cushion the thundering as much as I can. I have some ideas for the end of the hallway – wallpaper maybe.  Oh and I want to change out the light fixtures, too – they are as *bright* as they appear.  Here’s the current state of the hallway with it’s slightly weird (tan?) paint.


I’ll be back this week with some posts on what I’ve been reading and some recent recipes (I got my hands on a copy of the Kitchn’s new cookbook and it’s great!).

6.28.14 – Daily Dose of Green – June in Manhattan

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June always catches me off guard, on the back foot.  I’m never quite ready for summer and here it is. Suddenly it’s summer and I waste a month not really having my summer-game on. June is arguably the most delicious month of summer, with cherries and warm breezy nights before the onslaught of July heat and August’s end-of-summer doldrums. This year I’ve tried to make the most of the June-ness of June.  We’ve been soaking in the sun, taking dinner down to Riverside Park and spending time on shore of the Hudson River.  I took the bus to Target/Costco on the far east side yesterday where I bought Beach chairs for $9 at Target and Organic cherries at Costco, $4.50 a pound! Summer in a grocery receipt. Screen shot 2014-06-28 at 9.08.44 AMScreen shot 2014-06-28 at 9.08.57 AM   Screen shot 2014-06-28 at 9.09.27 AM

6.2.14 – Catching Up: Birthday cakes, nail polish, good reads and coconut crisps

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I’m bursting with a backlog of blog posts and it’s all going to come out in an incomprehensible torrent tonight.  Apologies in advance.   To start: The weather has been gorgeous in New York – perfect picnic weather after a Trader Joe’s run that included raspberries and TJ’s shortbread.

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Then, it was Alex’s FIFTH birthday this past week, so I baked him a ninja cake, because, you know, that’s what you do. I love this King Arthur’s Flour “golden cake” recipe – I’ve baked it a couple of times and it always makes the most amazingly moist perfect layer cake.  The key is room temperature ingredients. Then, I make the frosting/glaze out of coconut oil, honey and butter.  It looks wonky and homemade but both my guys keep requesting it, so I guess there’s that.  Awesome Ninja Toppers from ThinkAndThin on Etsy.

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My transition to Upper West Sider is complete, I bought a cart.  Which has been a life saver, since, as a beloved landlord used to say “I was born under a schlepping sign.” Truer words.

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I served two weeks on Grand Jury which while disruptive, and at times upsetting, was also a deeply contemplative time, to be outside my routine and world for a few weeks. I explored Chinatown and SOHO and finally got to try BlackSeed bagels, which had been blowing up my Instagram for months.  #delicious.   I read a lot during Grand Jury duty, since any day I can read is a good day.   I read artist Anne Truitt’s journal Daybook which I will do a longer post about, but highly recommend in the meantime.  She writes about life, being an artist, a mother, a wife, a woman – she writes with a simple insightful style that is addicting. I kept wanting to be around Anne, to read slower so I could spend more time seeing the world through her eyes.  Recommend x 100. I also read two solid dystopian young adult reads: Under The Never Sky by Veronica Rossi and Orleans by Sherri Smith.  Both would make good airplane or beach reads, they are absorbing worlds and easy to escape into.

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I got a manicure last week with a new to me non-toxic polish, Zoya in color Kylie 2.  It’s a warm coral color and I’m all for the non-toxic part, but the reason I’m blogging about it is that I’ve never had a nail polish last SO LONG. I’m a hands on person and usually my polish chips the day of or day after a pedicure so a whole week seemed pretty amazing. Finally, I’ve been making ice cream sundaes with these dang toasted coconut chips. #really delicious.

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5.13.14 – Found: Two Parenting Survival Tools

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Oh hi there!  Life has been blurring by, which I hate. I blink and a week is over.  What I like best about blogging is as I sit here on the couch at night, digesting what I’ve seen and sharing it with you, time slows down a bit.  I usually start blogging by looking through the photos on my phone — this photo is from last Friday night when after school Alex and I headed down to Riverside Park, just because the weather was finally warm and it was still light out. The boundary between land and water always has a magnetic pull – most noticeable at the beach, I think – but we still felt it down on the shore of the Hudson. We spent an hour just watching debris and boats run by, throwing rocks into the fog, making up reasons for the  police lights across the river in NJ (pirate attacks, mostly!)

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I discovered two parenting survival tools in the last few weeks and wanted to share.  Both are practical – one is the Mophie battery case for the Iphone.  Alex had his first emergency room visit ever over spring break (seven stitches which have healed nicely, I’m happy to report!) and while I might someday write a post about that experience in its own right (An Emergency Room Survival Guide?), the main thing I realized as we sat 12 hours in the ER waiting room was that I never wanted to have a low phone battery again. I watched my fully charged battery slowly run out of juice, my anxiety increasing with every bar of battery lost –  it made an already stressful situation even more so.  On our way home, in the airport in Raleigh, at a Best Buy Vending Machine of all places, I snapped up a red Mophie case. It carries an entire extra charge and I have been so very happy with it. Best of all, it uses Blackberry/Kindle chargers which are ubiquitous in my house and this simple fact has vastly simplified our nightly family charging routine. NB: Does anyone else juggling family charging (ie who charges what device at what time? Our routine has become pretty elaborate sad to say).  PS: This is the truth.

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The second tool is the more appropriate for city dwellers without cars … the BubbleBum Inflatable Car Seat. For those parents lucky enough to live someplace with a car, this will not seem noteworthy.  However, if you’ve ever had to lug a booster seat to a car rental place or on a plane or really anywhere, you will be interested in this.  The BubbleBum is inflatable and this makes it very lightweight.  Also, it has an ingenious system I can’t describe with words that manages to make the chest strap comfortable for kiddos of a certain age  (the seat is rated for 4-11 year olds).  I don’t think I’m exaggerating when I say it is down right revolutionary. Ha!  We’ve used it on three or four trips and it has been easy and so comfortable for Alex.

Finally, I’m in the middle of serving on Jury duty in NYC and wondered if any New Yorkers had lunch recommendations?  And thanks, as ever, for reading along and sharing!

5.4.14 – Seen: May Pole Celebration

We trekked to my favorite part of Central Park today  – The Great Hill –  for Kite Day at Alex’s school.   It was blustery and raw on top but that didn’t stop 40 kids from running wild with (and without) their kites.  In the center of the Great Hill, another school had put up a May Pole and was dancing around it with vim and vigor. The whole chaotic and yet sweet scene reminded me of the town where I grew up –  Putney, VT. Every May Day there was a May Pole and Morris Dancers in the town center (parking lot) and we’d all get together to watch, often in similar weather (nothing stopped the Morris dancers, not even rain).  The Morris Dancers with their crisp white shirts, bells and wooden sticks  were strange and compelling in their knowledge of the old ways.  Some say the dancers preform a fertility rite, a celebration of spring returning or represent the triumph of good or evil – whatever your take, the dances are old and rich in symbolism.  Thinking about Morris dancers got me to youtube, where I found this troupe in England who danced on May 1 2014. Their  unself-conscious enthusiasm and dedication to ritual warms my heart and makes me feel a part of it, in a weird digitally-intermediated way.  I hope you celebrated the coming of spring wherever it found you and that the grass is green and leaves are growing a little bit each day around you.

PS: Some good history on May Day / Beltane


4.27.14 – Grocery Scouting: Perfect Steak

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Tim cooked a steak (Hardwick Beef Ribeye) tonight so tender and so flavorful that it almost made me weep.  He used an Alton Brown technique where you get a cast iron pan really hot in the oven (500 degrees), then pan-sear the steak on the stove top and finally put the steak back in the oven to finish.  It’s safe to say we will be cooking steak no other way in this house from here on out. Paired with left-over roast fingerling potatoes and garlic spinach, the meal felt like a real celebration of spring.

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4.26.14 – Scouting: 48 Hours in Miami

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We took a three day mini break in Miami last week and I wanted to share some of the highlights.  Miami, staying at the Loew’s Miami Beach, is a surprisingly great weekend getaway with kids.  There are a lot of resorts around Miami – the kind of “check in and don’t leave the compound” type of places, but with kiddos I’ve found it’s nice to have options (what if it rains?!).  The Loew’s caught my eye because it is centrally located and universally well reviewed for families.  And, we weren’t disappointed! The hotel is right on the beach, which felt exotic beyond belief after this past winter in NYC. Our room (806 if you want to book this exact view below!) was big-ish with direct ocean views, good room service, super-friendly/unpretentious staff, and the pool and beach were a 3 minute walk.  The flight from NYC is direct and the hotel convenient to both beach and city things (we walked directly to Wolfsonian and restaurants from the hotel). There is a kids club, but, really only for kids who are strong swimmers (Alex is not). Alex loved the pool however, and it was full of other families so we felt right at home.   To get seats at the pool or the beach you need to head out early (around 9am). Also, the chairs on the actual beach in front of the hotel are owned by a third party and you pay extra for them. But worth it.  Lots of families were out there the whole day (the hotel provides all sorts of sand toys).

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We didn’t even scratch the surface of food in Miami, but everywhere we ate was good.  We really loved Mandolin Miami  and La Sandwicherie.  Yardbird was good, too.

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We also checked out the Wolfsonian and the Perez museums which were actually the highlight of our trip.

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