Babies And Kids

This tale of removing red sharpie marker from a couch is impressive. The first thing I thought when I saw all those scribbles is “I bet that was fun.”  Found via the good folks at Ohdeedoh.

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I’ve been waiting months to share an amazing resource with you.   My superb acupuncturist, Nancy Park, has finally expanded her practice and is taking new patients.  She singlehandedly helped me through a difficult and high-risk pregnancy.   Name a pregnancy symptom (hormone swings, swelling, fatigue, nausea) or any aliment really, and she can help alleviate it. Her massages are out of this world and any visit to her is both healing and relaxing.   She is also incredibly gentle and wise. Truly one of best acupuncturists in New York City.

For those of you who’ve never been to an acupuncturist, you really don’t feel the needles, they are TINY. Nancy specializes in treating pregnant women, women struggling with infertility and anyone who has chronic pain.

Nancy Park
Soho Health Arts
50 Greene Street
2nd Floor
New York, NY  10013

(646) 246-5398
nancy AT parkhealingarts.com

PS: She treats my husband too (so she’s not just for women!).

Sweet cartwheel photo from here.

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How fantastic is this owl costume Abbey made her son?  I’m excited for Halloween.  I haven’t decided what Alex is going to wear….

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I discovered this amazing animal silhouette font thanks to Jordon.  I’d love to make a custom fabric with this, or, flash cards for the babe, or, a baby book of somekind.

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It seems Knoll now has a full line of midcentury modern children’s furniture, including seating and tables.  So sweet, so mod.  Check out more from Vastu.

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The weeks are coming and going with alarming speed these days.  I finished up my job yesterday and am now just getting ready for the baby to arrive.  Maybe I’ll have time to make baby quilt…We had a great childbirth class today at the Prenatal Yoga Center at 72nd Street taught by Terry Richmond who is just excellent.   I highly, highly recommend the Prenatal Yoga Center after a in-retrospect-humorous-but-in-the-moment-horrifyingly bad class at New York Hospital.   In the way pregnant woman are wont to do, I came home at 6 irritable and swollen and passed out until 9 when I woke up mellow and in love with life.  Now listening to Jason Mraz and catching up on a good six weeks of blog reading.  I miss you guys.  LOVE, Abbey

One of my favorite features over at Design*Sponge is Weeder’s Digest.  Sarah’s arrangements are nothing short of contagious. You can buy them at her shop Saipua too (hint, hint to Tim and anyone ever thinking of sending me flowers (you know who you are).  And, congratulations to Grace, now a newly married lady!  And, Samantha is having a baby (woot!)

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I thought it was time for a pregnancy bump reveal. There’s a little boy in there!  We are so excited and can’t believe we only have 5.5 weeks to go.

When I first got pregnant I was overwhelmed by how little “good” or “common sense” information about pregnancy was available on the internet (or in books for that matter).  Now that I’ve got 8.5 months of pregnancy under my belt (literally!) I thought I’d share my common sense survival guide to pregnancy. Of course this is in no way medical advice and you should always discuss your medical condition with your doctor.

Books and Websites

You’ll find really quickly that most books and websites have an agenda (pro-natural childbirth, pro-epidural etc etc etc).  From The Hips in particular does a great job of not having an agenda and educating you about all your options (with pros and cons of each). The authors also have a nice voice.  I particularly liked the Perfect Hormone Balance book’s common sense approach to handling the inconveniences of pregnancy that many doctors will just tell you to “endure” like morning sickness and mood swings.  I think it should be handed out with every positive pregnancy test.  It’s that good.  I found that BabyCenter.com is one of the better baby/pregnancy websites.

Food

If I could only give one piece of advice to other pregnant women it would be: stay hydrated. So simple and so overlooked.  I drink about 2.5 liters of water a day.  Low fat mozzarella string cheese really helped with my morning sickness.  Coconut water is a natural gatorade and helped me stay hydrated and avoid leg cramps (it has as much potassium as three bananas!)

Clothes

Everyone’s belly grows at different rates and in different ways so that only real advice I can give you is shop around and don’t spend too much on anything (since you seriously might outgrow it in a week). I bought a pair of expensive Juicy Couture corduroys and only wore them for a month.  A total waste of money. I also had two separate breakdowns in maternity stores — I’d suggest going with a pregnant friend or your mom.  The changes in your body can be really overwhelming and it seems impossible at first to figure out how to still feel like yourself.

What worked for me (a petite woman with wide hips and a huge bust): I was actually happiest when I adapted my pre-pregnancy clothes. I have lived in my Beyond Yoga pants and loved layering cardigans with J Crew tank tops (size medium and size large) — this  took me through the 8th month of pregnancy. When my bump got too big, I switched to Pea in the Pod maternity tee shirts (that were WAY too big for the first two trimesters).  I also lived in Micheal Star cowl necks through the entire winter (and I might even be able to wear them post pregnancy).  When I had to be dressed up for work or social stuff, I found that dresses from Talbots and Club Monaco two sizes larger than my normal size were MUCH better than anything “maternity”.

I found a chunky necklace or two made me feel more pulled together and less self conscious about my new (HUGE) bust.  Oh and if your boobs get huge (not everyone’s do), go get fitted for new bras ASAP at someplace like Intimacy.  This is probably were I spent the most money on pregnancy clothes and it was worth every penny.  They will also take most maternity bras and turn them into nursing bras. Target has a great maternity line that is really affordable and I also found that their plus size line worked well too (and in most stores they are close together so that makes shopping easy).   I basically live in sneakers and clogs these days (I really really miss all my nice shoes….).

General Advice

Every woman has a different experience being pregnant — which can be harder than you’d think and was a real shock to me. I naively thought that since all babies need roughly 10 months in the womb that the experience would be a series of identical milestones (ohhh how wrong I was!).   I didn’t suffer from constipation (see water!) or back spasms or morning sickness (see string cheese!) or Braxton Hicks (see water again!) or food aversions.  But, I did suffer from vertigo and major major fatigue. My second trimester was the hardest three months of my life to date yet everyone around me said that their second trimesters were a breeze. It was scary at first that my friends and my mother hadn’t suffered from these things and that I wasn’t suffering from the things they had.

Also, it surprised me how hard women are on other women. Women seem to get very judgmental/self righteous/defensive/ competitive about labor choices and the use of formula, and on and on.  Forewarned is forearmed.  I learned to keep my mouth shut pretty quickly and tune out people who had an axe to grind on both ends of the spectrum. I have friends who’ve had every experience possible, from home births to scheduled cesareans, from full time nannys to attachment parenting.    My take: as women we should be glad we live in an age were we can become educated about our choices and make a choice as to how our baby comes into the world and what their first years are like.  This wasn’t possible for our mothers’ generation.

What would Miss Manners Say: When someone says they are pregnant, the ONLY response is “you are going to be great parents.”  When someone tells you the sex of their child the best response is “it must be so nice to know!”  — otherwise you risk sounding like you think one sex is better than another.  I found that when I told people I was having a boy, they acted like having a boy was the equivalent of winning the pregnancy lottery.  Which got my back up.  Also, never comment on the size of a woman’s bump (“you look great” is a good go-to if you feel you need to comment) or assume if it is large that she is about to deliver (the security guards where I work act as if I’m about to go into labor — every day for the last two months).

Pregnancy isn’t easy (although it is pretty amazing to have another life inside you) and I hope this offers some practical resources for navigating your own pregnancy!

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